Monday, June 22, 2020

Count your blessings.......

Actor Sushant Singh Rajput's incident is on everyone's mind. It has rang back same questions in our mind - when can we be happy  ? This was answered by one of my friend - we can be happy right now. Why we need things to be happy. I believe he was right. We can be happy right now because if things made you happy, then Sushant had everything. Then why did he do it. There are many theories. No meaning in discussing those because only he knew why he did it.

So, here I am not speaking for Sushant who has left us but for many Sushants who are still here. They are all struggling in different fields to make their dreams come true. Possibly only few of them, would reach their destination and majority may not. But I want to tell all of you here; you are always unique to your parents and those around you.

May be lot of people tried to humiliate and corner him. But his family, friends and fans loved him like mad. He may not had access to friends and fans for some reason but one person - his father never wanted to outlive him. No father wants to carry death body of his son. He did not think that how much efforts goes in growing a child by parents. In a fraction of minute, he failed his father.  Your father allowed you to be an actor, instead of engineer.....and many more things to do which you wanted.......and you proved yourself right. He and of course, everyone associated with you were proud of you........coming from a small village and making it big in alien city.


Not every Shahrukh Khan or for that matter any actor can make any difference in our lives but our nearest family members, friends do. This can be simplified as - my family -friends will definitely check me whether I had dinner, I am back from work etc etc. No stars from bollywood will come to do so. Our family and friends are right there when we need it.


Life was very much fair to you compared to millions of people who are not even 1% blessed like you. You failed to count your blessings.

APJ Abdul Kalam  did not get recruitment as a Pilot in spite of having caliber.......Everyone knows what did he do then......he kept on moving ahead........and he became India's missile-man. He later on became our most beloved President.

So, please count your blessings when you feel low..........I repeat count your blessings........



Sunday, July 7, 2013

Reciprocal of Smile

About two days back, when I was at Apna Bazar, a man beside me wished good evening and invited my attention towards a woman beside him with two children, obviously his wife which was easy to make out being he there with family shopping for grocery - his words in Marathi exactly - tumhi hila olakhta ka ? (Do you know her). Before, I could reply anything, he replied - she is my wife whom you have sent a legal notice few years back and these are my two children. I didn't know how to react with that woman, but she reciprocated my smile and I put my hands on his children saying only 3 magic words - God Bless You and passed ahead with my trolley after a chit-chat of two-three sentences with the man. 

I must say I was thrilled by this experience. It was a Positive experience for a lawyer who sees so many negative stories.........naah facts around.......real life stories going wrong and this one though once upon a time was on wrong road, now on right track and my reciprocal of smile with his wife made my day. Felt happy.......God Bless this family more happiness in the future is the only wish for the day !!